Charles Earl Gower Sr.

flagOBIT - GowerBAR HARBOR — Charles Earl Gower Sr., 83, died comfortably on March 16, 2015, at the Maine Veterans’ Home, Bangor. He was born July 3, 1931, in Bar Harbor, to Earl P. and Mary A. (Byron) Gower.

Charlie served in the United States Army from October 1952 to September 1954, and served in Germany during that time. Charlie, a lifelong resident of Bar Harbor, enjoyed a life as a chef and piano player in Florida as well as Bar Harbor. His music was heard around the island in places like the Jordan Pond House. He was frequently seen walking the carriage paths and swimming at Echo Lake. He assisted many people through his avid commitment to AA and hosting AA meetings. He always enjoyed being with people and telling stories of the island’s history. His smile warmed many hearts.

Charlie is survived by the mother of his children, Dolores Gower, of Bar Harbor; brother John Gower and wife Marie, of Tremont and Naples, Fla.; two sons, Charles E. Gower Jr. and partner, Sue Stanley, and her daughters, Olivia and Emma, of Bar Harbor, and Joseph Gower of Bangor; two daughters, Donna VanMetre and husband Craig, of Chicago, Ill., Laura Jauch and husband Andy of San Diego, Calif.; three grandchildren, Ben and wife, Ashley, Nathan and Eden. He was predeceased by two sisters, Kathleen “Kay” Peverini and Eileen McMorrow and a brother, Father James Gower.

A graveside memorial will be held 10 a.m. Saturday, May 23, 2015, at Holy Redeemer Cemetery, Kebo Street, Bar Harbor.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be given in Charlie’s memory to your local AA chapter or The Maine Veterans Home, 44 Hogan Rd, Bangor, ME 04401, or your local veterans home.

Arrangements in care of Jordan-Fernald, 1139 Main St, Mount Desert. Condolences may be expressed at


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